*EDIT* Friend was able to join server via Arkservers.net but I have yet to get passed the Ark loading screen. He has been on a full half hour and nothing changing on my end*https://scontent-lax1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xfa1/t31.0-8/11538983_1087949367901321_8425645116121030865_o.jpg
I see my server on the server list and on Arkservers.net
both show my server online but I can neither join directly or find it in the server list in game.
A friend of mine can't find it either.
When I try to direct connect is just stays on the ARK loading screen. I thought it may just take a while but I opened it yesterday, left it on over night and this morning it was still not connected.